Sunday, May 22, 2011

MEANING OF NAME & ENDEARMENT

MOMMY-DADDY OR MAMA-PAPA

Some couples call each other Mama & Papa or Mommy & Daddy out of habit. For others, it may be a sign that they’re letting their role as parents take over their roles as spouses. “Mama or Papa is a functional endearment. It’s very important for couples not to neglect their role as spouses – ever…

If you’re caught in the mama-papa rut, try out other endearment or pet names. Dig up the pet names you used to call each other before you became parents.

DARLING-LOVE

Loving nicknames, while seemingly trivial, act as romance-catalyst. They not only serve as constant reminders of how much one means to the other, but also validate a couple’s level of intimacy.

When a couple say “ I DO, “ they are committing themselves to a lifetime of loving. But soon enough, this commitment sometimes get lost amid the overwhelming task of RAISING KIDS, RUNNING A HOUSEHOLD, and PURSUING A CAREER. It’s not enough for a MAN or a WOMAN to say, “I GOT MARRIED TO YOU, What Further proof of LOVE do you NEED?”. – Your SPOUSE needs to feel LOVED every day.

If your endearment slipping into the land of generics, try new pet names or endearment. Leaved the tired “darling” or “lazy ling “. Use the new and unique nick name.

PEDRO-MARIA

And what about the couples who refuse to call or give each other pet names? It might be the relationship is a flat romance-wise. Or maybe, the partners come from families that are not too demonstrative with their affections. For example, if one hardly sees his parents hold hands or hardly hearing them saying sweet nothings, let alone call each other Darling or Sweetheart, he may find it very awkward to do these things with his partner.

But remember, once your partner stops calling you Sweetie, darling or Honey, Watch out dear!!! It may be a sign that the romance is fading. But it doesn’t always mean that your partner is having an affair. He/she may just need a serious love-boost!!!

TRY THIS OUT….

Why don’t you try praise him or show him you care and appreciate him. “tell him that you love the way he calls you Baby. Tell him that it makes you feel good when he calls you Honey.’’ And when you see something nice about him, don’t just think about it! Tell him you like his new hair style or tell him you like his new shirt. Or that he cooked a really good and delicious Kare-Kare and Spaghetti. These are real turn-ons. Don’t take things for granted rather don’t take your partner for granted. For partners who say that they’re not used to being sweet, well, it’s a matter of making a decision to be sweeter and loving to your partner. If you commit to be sweeter and loving to your partner, then with enough love and will power and creativity, you will be….

Tender nicknames can make couples feel loving and special, and they can work the same way with children.

Giving special nicknames or pet names to children is good as long as they’re positive and true.

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